Defination for One-Itis

One-Itis, a term I read from a particular book written by a particular author who has a particular statement to make. Okay, let's get straight to the meat.

I may not be too accurate, but before I explain what one-itis mean, I need to ask you people some questions (assume the reader is a male okay?):

1. When you like a girl, do you feel that you want to tell her that you love her, and you want to be with her to take care of her, and she can make your whole life feel complete? However you don't know how to phrase it to her?
2. Do you feel a bit nervous whenever she's around?
3. Are you afraid to offend her in anyway, therefore you paid attention to every single detail about her and the surroundings so you think you can try to make her happy? Put this another way, you don't dare to speak freely because you scared you might offend her in anyway?
4. Is there a certain amount of uncomfortable silences between the two of you?
5. You won't hold her hand until she's your girlfriend. Yes?

Okay, that's about it. If in any of these questions, you answered "YES", you have one-itis with your crush. One-itis is a term used when you have problems expressing yourself infront of the girl you like, even though you really love her, but you are just uncomfortable whenever she's around. Well, it's not a bad thing though.. but it makes it difficult for you to take another step to bring this friendship to another level. I can summarize all these into one question for you.

"What if your CRUSH becomes your CRASH?"

Relax dudes, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I am going through this with you people too!